Thursday, November 29, 2007

In Between

I dislike this time of being in between houses, belonging neither to one nor the other. Nerves wear thin about now, when the exchange is almost, but not quite, complete. I've done better this time than last time (just 8 months ago), perhaps because I've always known this place was temporary, perhaps because I've stayed better fortified with the Word, adequate breaks, and decent food. (I lost 10 pounds during our last move and got down to pre-baby sized jeans. I wanted to make absolutely sure that didn't happen this time. Just kidding! I'm pregnant, so it doesn't matter...)

I will miss this charming old house. Our new home is nondescript 1970's style, not my favorite architectural era, but I can look at it as a clean slate just waiting for the addition of our own personality. While we are excited and pleased to be in a place of our own, it is not really what we envisioned. I'm not a fan of neighborhood life. Yet it is so clearly the place God picked out for us. Billy and I were talking the other night about how God often gives us what we need, not exactly what we want. Just following where He leads brings such freedom, because we are not constantly holding out for our own way. I believe with all my heart, like the Bible says, that God chooses the places where we live and I know that He puts us there for a purpose greater than our own. I am excited to see what He has in store for the ministry of our new home.

Here are a few things I really love and appreciate about our new place:

A big laundry room. I prayed for this. It will be a delight to work in!

A small screened in porch. I believe I prayed for this too! I can't wait to find a swing and spend time watching the kids play in the yard or just enjoying the quiet.

A large fenced yard. The kids have a place to run and play for the first time since we've lived here.

A great kitchen with new appliances. I've never had a new refrigerator, and I'm so excited. None of the current appliances worked, so we had to include new ones in our plans. They will be fun to use, I know.

A dining room big enough for our large dining room set. Our big table seats up to 10, so we will be able to have guests easily.

I also really love the layout of our new house, with a fairly open floor plan between kitchen, dining room, and living room. It will easily accommodate many people at one time.

A master bathroom. Haven't had this since our first house, years ago.

Lots of storage. 'Nuff said.

I'm sure I'll discover even more things to love about our new place as we live there for awhile. Right now I just feel thankful.

Now off of my break and on to packing!


Patty said...

love grows in the place God puts us. I felt that way at first with this house, but knew it was just the place God wanted for us and it has proved so true !

Charity Grace said...

I agree! Wise words! :)

Hannah's Mom said...

"about how God often gives us what we need, not exactly what we want."

These words are so true. God knows what we need and if we can keep that in mind it makes for a more peaceful exsistence. Our society focuses so much on what we "want" instead of what is needed. :(

I am so excited for you all. I know in no time you have it warm and cozy. :)

Keeping you in our prayers!

JAN said...

Hi Charity Grace-
Your new house does nice. It's good that you can look at the positives and focus on those. Once you get all your stuff moved in and your family is all around you it will feel like home. I loved your comment about God giving us what we need and not exactly what we want. Sooooo true!
I wanted to let you know I did post our cleaning schedule and a little info about a waaaaayyy more detailed one-please let me know if you have any more questions.
Jesus bless you guys as you move and settle in!

Mobunny said...

We live in a 70's type house that was built in the 40's. Go figure! We lived in apartments before we moved here and it was really strange living in a real house. It was just right for us.
I'd hate to have to move. It would take a month of Sundays to get everything out of the yard.

Erica said...

hope the move is going well and that you're feeling ok. can't wait to see pics of the new house!

Gina said...

How's the move going? I need your address so I can send you a Christmas card to decorate your new house! e-mail